Yeah, this is a fact that people overlook I think, and since coming to terms with that, I've come to terms with people using the duty finder for "speed runs" or rather farming runs (which are obviously a popular choice). That said, this doesn't mean the duty finder is exclusively for speed runners, and I reserve my right to queue hoping for a slower first time run (mainly after waiting hours already without success in the party finder). Obviously if there's a group that's not happy to compromise then unfortunately a kick / vote abandon / leave could be in order (whether it be initiated by the slower player or the faster player), but there's no need for anyone to be rude about it. People should just respect each others preferences and accept it's bad luck if the duty finder group has a conflict of interests, not bully or force the other player to conform to their objective. Vote abandon doesn't always have to be used spitefull or in rage, i.e. "Sorry, most of us are farming this and don't really want to wait around for cutscenes. Good luck getting a story run in your next group".
When would be speed runners do slow down for one player, I think that's really awesome, but if they're not willing to make that sacrifice I wouldn't call them selfish either.
I do think developers could help alleviate the issue a little by raising awareness of the party finder, particularly for first timers / casual players. Currently I see it's really only used for experienced or learning groups for ex mode primals or coil, or myth farming / speedrun groups. Now I can put up an ad for a slow and easy Praetorium, or Pharos, but it doesn't mean anyone will come. My suggestions are:
I do understand that ultimately, as you say there are less players doing first time runs, so you will always need to wait for some time before getting a willing "slow" group. But I do think the suggestions above would help a lot. It would be a shame for new players to have to cave in and play in a way that they don't enjoy or simply not play.








