As a healer how do you help under geared tanks?

[Estellios]

I would like to know how to reply properly to the verbal assault I get as a healer from under geared tanks pulling to the ramp in Longstop (Hard) after we wipe because I physically can not heal them fast enough.

Or the verbal assault I get as a healer because I run out of MP with under geared DPS unable to kill the horde of mobs fast enough.

Cenora Talvaul has left the party.


I'll try my best to put up with undergeared people and offer advice if I can, but I won't tolerate rudeness. It's very rare that I haven't been able to clear a dungeon with an undergeared or underskilled tank but I do try and let them know if their gear is poor or if they need to use their skills differently.