Duty Finder and troublesome players

[Spoekes]

What annoys me more are the tanks that don't just eat the timer, but disconnect/close the game/whatever...

Yeah, you must wait 5 mins to even be able to kick him, of course, leaving in that state will give you a penalty.... hahaha..... well played....

They just wait like 10 mins offline till they get kicked, log back in and enjoy a new instant queue....

Why do you not get a penalty after being kicked in the first place?

[Shirai]

Why do you not get a penalty after being kicked in the first place?

This is what still irks me to no end as well.
Leaving a dungeon gives a penalty (which, if I really have to, I will gladly take with a thousand apologies to the party I leave behind) but when I get kicked I can requeue with no consequence.

I cringe whenever a partymember asks "please kick me, I don't want to be bothered by the penalty".
Mainly because the best course of action is to actually do so as not doing it will only work to disadvantage the rest of the party even more.

All in all though, I think I am pretty lucky when it comes to DF.
I hardly have any incidents, or maybe it is because I tend to just let things go instead of letting them ruin the rest of my evening.