Please, seriously, allow us to send tells to people in dungeons.

[Gontrant_Sorel]

This is a good compromise, however, 2 should be Off by default. Anything that needs said in instance can be said in /p.

I disagree. sometimes you want to say something in private to avoid unwanted conflict. for example if I /p that I want to add that nice miqo'te to my friends list but only her the other two at the party may not take it well but if I /tell her nobody else will know about it.