A little research before "some" fights wouldn't hurt...but in my experience people learn more actually DOING a fight even if they did watch a vid on it. Most people walk away from it with some knowledge of what to do even if they didn't succeed, and the bittersweet victory if they did after a few wipes if they pick up on things fast. All of that said, your frustration is at the very least somewhat justified. The biggest problem though is the lack of patience that people have for those learning what they need to do.