Until SE fixes the fate issue just go with the flow, people don't kill the lambs, the Fate finishes on its own, if you can't wait 10 min for them to finish their farming then you deserve the social suicide which is what happens, my friend killed the lambs and almost everyone attending that fate blacklisted him, good luck finding groups and dungeons now, cause once your blacklisted you don't match with that party, the duty finder logic>>>>>>Party located for duty>>>>>checking status>>>>>>blacklisted player detected>>>>>>back in queue. Its annoying but thats life, your not getting punished for completing a fate, you're being punished for not having patience and annoying the majority player base in that area.