It's been known for awhile now that things like pvp and the rest of the raid dungeons, housing, and various other things weren't going to be in at release. I am not sure why anyone is at all surprised these things are missing atm. They aren't there, they are coming. For the OP try crafting, make friends, have a laugh, start amassing a fortune to buy your house and furnish it, join a FC, start a FC, find ways to help improve the community on your server, get involved, make suggestions on how to improve the game (the devs seem to be willing to listen to opinion) I'm sure there are some ideas I've missed.