Quote Originally Posted by Leira_Raine View Post
Here is the quote:

"Hmm at 2:59 on this blog you wrote that the Black list would go away. If Bastok deleted himself. This is exactly what you wrote. now you say you fucking hate him for deleting himself for you.???? Please i am really confused and i believe you are too. This may have gone far but it was for Entertainment. Please see that and your a nice person and your friends are really nice. I think you can get through this Talia. Truthfully you were boring to me at first but now that I see you have a writing edge. I really respect your char. My God i am talking to a char. lol"
Things I notice here:
1) He tells you that you are confused in order to weaken you sense of self.
2) He tells you that it was a joke or in this case "Entertainment".
3) He tells you that you are "nice" which means able to put the other person before yourself. This is fine with a healthy person, but abusers use this to trap their victims.
4) He having played the "nice card", insults you by calling you boring. Classic manipulation tactic done in a rather poorly disguised way.
He makes excuse after excuse for his behavior. Its really sad.

I'm a bit confused at the end when he says that he is talking to your character, but this sounds like he is setting up an excuse to give to the mods. Something like "Oh it was just roleplaying".

I hope this helps. Remember you are not alone.