I think it's fine to have SSM in the game. I mean we are in 2013 it's not much of a big thing now a days. Personally I feel that people should love who they want to love and not be judged by people. Again that's just my opinion. Further more it is a game that supposedly supports customization to the players liking. I think if SE is going to implement something they should implement it across the board so that all players can play the way they wish to play or not implement it at all. I mean really what is the point of this "marriage" concept anyway? The game will be awesome even without this lol But if they do decide to implement this concept I think they should make it possible for SSM just as much as OSM. I think it's about being fair to the entire FFXIV community. ^.^