jynx did it every occure to you that, thats all in your mind. And don;t even need to be true.

i am a person who does and will have time to play a game. So please don;t assume I don't.

unfortunatly..... due to the limitations everyone here wants. I was unable to do the content anyway. There wasn't, i repeat, was not enough "play longer" players to do said content. So i got let out.
here is my player stats
most jobs were above 5 most my sub were 49 my main dnc was 90 my sub main mnk was 80 my old main rdm was 69 (was 70) I was stuck on rank 8 sandy dm for zilart, the sea missions for cop, on the fight with shantotto in treasures, on purple is the new black in wings.
i only end game i did was sky for a mnth and dynamis for a mnth. Both those shells broke and i for 3 years I couldn't find any other shell to join. All wree full.

so i did only about 20% of ffxi. and missed a good 80% even with 12-20 hrs of play time. That is what happens when you limit players. Less of them can join.