This is simple.
You want to play a game that is based upon fantasy and thus willing to bend the rules of what constitues as 'sexist' or some other such thing, you play WoW, GW, FF, etc
You want to play a game that resembles something closer to the real world and doesnt allow such things, go play second life.
Or, better yet, stop being nerds and arguing about stupid topics and go live your REAL life offline, where it belongs.
This shall forever be my preferred youtube link for such threads such as this:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IRsPheErBj8