This is why I avoid behests. It's easier to work with small groups of people you know then to try to work with a bunch you don't. People have their own ways of playing and sometimes they feel they have to enforce that way on others. That guy doesn't want people 'messing up' HIS stuff, but behests are open to everyone. By not even attempting to inform you on the problem he is only causing a larger problem for himself because next time he'll have the same issue with someone else. Elitism only causes more of it. That's why I'm always willing to help people on my server. If I ever see someone new, even if they don't want to necessarily be in my LS, I always tell them if they have any questions feel free to ask me. I try to help as much as possible because the more everyone knows the better everyone can try to be overall.