Get a controller. If you try to play it like wow, it won't work. You have to play it like ff7-10. When I went to xi from eq back int he day, i struggled for a long time with the controls. THen my friend gave me a controller and said "pretend it's ff7" and BAM, right away the controls were perfect and easy to navigate.

When my kids started, hte dual analogs were tricky to master, but after a few weeks, they got it down, with movement, camera angle, and targeting all at the same time.