Sorry I missed this, I was grilling burgers, hotdogs, chicken, and a 20lb rack of ribs, swam for about 3 hours, played a dozen games of vollyball, drank 8-10 beers, then watched a mammoth fireworks display. the kids were asleep by 10:45 and I was asleep by 11:30.

And for those that have issues with the holiday, feel free not to celebrate it and have fun. No one is making you.