For me it's the fact that the player base seems to be younger (physically or mentally) or pearl clutchers and as an older, chill dude I just cannot relate. I would love a guild of 40yo+ ppl who are not anime obsessed and can talk about actual life or just likes to bs. I miss the days where I could log into ffxi or even ffxiv in its infancy, and just shoot the *cough* with a bunch of buddies about whatever random stuff came up and run content with a static who are open to discussion about the fight and their role in it. Every guild I have joined in the past decade is just constant teen-like drama and I am just over that at this point in my life and have ended up playing more solo as a result. Which reduces the fun of an mmo dramatically.

Oh and I hate discord and much prefer chatting in game or on something like vent, cannot wait for discord and all the nonsense that comes with it to be a thing of the past.