Alright, in light of recent events, a hot take..

- Every single instance of someone who says this game isn't sociable or that you can't say anything because of ToS is a self-report, it's always people who are unwilling to start conversations, it's always people who aren't willing to accept rejection from a conversation because not everyone wants to talk, it's always people who seemly can't help saying stuff that breaks ToS like they have no self-control, "Oh they will bait you into saying something" if that happens, it's still on you, if you can't go around without insulting people, without saying slurs, without getting heated and confrontational over the slightest thing, it is still completely on you, someone who won't say ToS-breaking stuff won't say it no matter the situation, and if you need a conscious filter to not say it, well, take a wild guess on who that is.