"You pull, you tank" is a bad mentality

[TBerry]

So explain to me, very easily, and very clearly from a neutral foundation why maintaining etiquette built on the foundation of a trinity which now exists in name only is good and should be followed for immersion reasons but other elements of said trinity that is being followed for immersion reasons aren’t relevant

Because id really like to know why anyone should follow the tank because of the ghost of the old trinity but other elements of the old trinity should just be ignored because it’s convenient for you. Either you follow the spirit of the ghost of the trinity or your whole etiquette system collapses because there is no argument where you can both say the DPS should follow the tank because in the old trinity the tank needed to pull first but also say the tank should be able to heal on behalf of the healer when in the old system the tank relied on the healing of the healer

It’s like a textbook case of having your cake and eating it too

So I should just run ahead and abuse my range because you say so. But when I get punished it's 100& the tank's fault and not mine because I want to abuse my range.
I don't know that sounds pretty egoistic.