
Originally Posted by
Merrigan
You're changing your basic message. And, I'm sorry, but you're also treating people like idiots. There are two of you here, in fact, who are assuming that anyone who opposes groups where everyone behaves in a YOLO manner is necessarily ignorant and incompetent.
I know that healers have to contribute to DPS. I've been playing this game for several years... Mostly as a healer. So there's no problem on that front. However, using the “big DPS” argument as proof that the roles are meant to be reversed is wrong: if, as a DPS, you do less damage than your healer or tank, there's a problem. A big one.
Similarly, there's no problem with the fact that you don't mind. Spoiler? I don't mind either when I'm tanking. But the subject of this thread is that some tanks don't like it. That it's not the “traditional” way of doing things in a very rigid trinity MMORPG like FFXIV. And in that regard, BlisteringFrost is right: it's simply not the usual way to behave, and from there, doing it without taking (literally) 30 seconds to post something in the chat is rude. Which makes your comment about party chat all the more curious: why not take the time to do it yourself, if you're a DPS who wants to pull? Especially since we can see when a player is new as soon as they enter the dungeon, but we can't predict that you'd rather go and find the mobs for your tank?
This game has many flaws. But damn it, if it has one good quality, it's the fact that the community remains relatively chill and respectful. And instead of appreciating that, we end up with a bunch of jokers who manage to defend by any means necessary that no, definitely, it's really much cooler not to accept to respect others at all because, you know, the tank having priority for pulling is not at all common in MMORPGs. Damn, that's sad.