Dawntrail character graphics update - opinions, requests and discussion megathread

[Circonflexe]

I can't say I agree with your assessment. If someone were to tell me their outfit is ugly and I ask them to show me what they're talking about and upon seeing it I disagree that it's ugly, that doesn't mean I didn't actually want their opinion or I have some ulterior motives. I thanked that person for providing their screenshot and specifically said it's valid for them to have the opinion I disagree with. Characterizing the post as "nah it's fine git gud lol" is disingenuous.

I've gone out of my way to say "in my opinion," "your opinion is okay too," "thank you," etc etc. Not sure how much more respectful you're wanting things to be while still disagreeing. Should everyone only respond with "Message received" and leave it at that?

Honestly this leads to a hole different topic about empathy - sure you can handle it like that, but I wouldn't describe it as polite, if that person is sad about an outfit, that was in their eyes beautyfull looking by choosing it and is very different (negatively different in their oppinion) the other day. It gets nastier if I choosed the same outfit, that I now like more than before and tell the person how beautifull it is and how much an outfit _should_ look like this to be pretty, while she/he is very sad. That's not respectfull, that's sassy.

There are very different ways to talk about the topic - phrases like "in my oppinion" don't change the massage in any way. You could say very nasty things "in your oppinion" but it would stay nasty things.

This get very much out of topic but at some point it should get addressed.

edit: You're right that I paraphrased your post heavily, but actually I didn't do that to suggest a tone that would challenge your arguments, I chose that comparison because I wanted to clarify how (at least I) understood your post. I apologize if you didn't mean it in the sense of "nah it's fine git gud lol", but I still have no other interpretation for it, no matter how many times I read your original post.