I was making a point through humor; swing and a miss apparently.
Suki, I suspect you are well-meaning and you have a nice name, but you're clearly coming from a hardcore perspective. To you (please correct me if I'm wrong), a significant motivation when playing a game is to get "better" at it. By which you mean being able to clear increasingly difficult PvE content.
I have suggested previously that the best FF14 player is the one who derives the most enjoyment from the game. For a "casual" player (who may play several hours a day), enjoyment has absolutely nothing to do with raiding. They either cannot make that transition, or find the idea of repeating the same fight over and over again to be completely tedious. This and similar threads have been provoked by the fact that the kind of content casuals enjoy is currently massively lacking.
If you take a vegan to a restaurant and they are staring gloomily at the menu, suggesting they'd really enjoy the beef wellington is a teeny bit tone deaf.
The situation has been made far worse since the CAR release by some hardcore raiders here and elsewhere conforming to the worst stereotypes of that community.
Raiders and casual players derive pleasure from FF14 in completely different ways. Both you and SE seem to be telling casual players that everything will be just fine if they'd embrace a playstyle that is completely foreign to them, thereby greatly compounding their frustration with the current state of the game and some of its players.