You asked if any DPS jobs were in a good spot right now, so I'll answer that question. "Good" is subjective, so my answer will be as well.
I think BLM is in a good spot. I've loved BLM since ARR, and I still love it right now. When I log in nowadays, a big part of that is that I want to play Dawntrail's BLM.
Is it as good as it was in Endwalker? That's a question with layers. In my opinion, it's worse in some ways, but better in others.
- Thunder: severe downgrade, I cry
- Flare Star: ambivalent; good in some ways, bad in others
- Umbral Ice MP rework: love it
- Manafont: love it
- Sharpcast: good riddance
- Umbral Soul: be still my heart, this is the best QoL change BLM has received since Enochian became a passive
So if I'm honest about the current state of BLM as it is, personally I feel that it's definitely "good". And it might even be "the best BLM has ever been".
That doesn't mean I'm not frustrated by some aspects of BLM; that doesn't mean there aren't things I would change to make it "better". But there have
always been things I would change about BLM if I could. I think the main difference in Dawntrail is that at present we aren't just theorycrafting ideas of how we'd like to change BLM; instead, we have actually
experienced those changes and
felt how good they were, before they were removed. There's not just a sense of "oh, I think the class would be better if X", but rather a sense of
loss. And that feels different.
So yeah, I do feel that sense of loss. But at the same time, when I sit down to play BLM, I'm pretty sure I'm having the best time I've ever had with the class.
And to those who feel differently: you're valid.