
Originally Posted by
Raven2014
This sounds like a bunch of deflections. For starter, outside of the internet, have ANYONE ever used the "it's ok to be bad because someone else is worse" as a defense for anything and see how successful it is?
- Over speed and get a ticket? Try to argue with the cop they should let you go because they didn't catch other who even speed faster.
- Screw up at work? Try to tell your boss you should be fine because others screw up too!
Go ahead, try it, see how it works.
You can live your best lives that you can earn, asking any more than what your ability can provide is just entitlement. You know what is my best life would look like? A home on the beach with 10 mil dollars in the bank. I'm "free" to dream about that life, to make that happen though ... that's a different story.
Maybe, but most people also don't try to punch above their weight. I wonder if some of you are just lacking in real life experience. If you works at some place for a long time, you'll notice the majority of people actually avoid promotion and extra responsibility. I myself had repeatedly turn down offer and willfully let many "opportunities" just pass by, because I know my limit. I know if I advance to the next step in my career, I would go from being the office hero to the office villain over night.
How to speed ruining your career 101: accept a task that's way above your ability. And this is a wisdom that applies not only to individuals, but even companies all the same. Accept a contract or bid that above your company ability to honor? Well, a loss of reputation, a breach of contract fine, maybe even bankruptcy are all on the menu. Argue if the company doesn't deserve such fate if you wish, but ... c'est la vie.
And anyone asking the question "who would let such big opportunity go by"? First, the answer will be "a lot of people do". And second, by asking that question ... well, to me that just show they don't have a lot of life experience.