Correct, which is why I find the OP post both overdramatic and slightly accusatory. They're trying to say a mood was missing, that the writers failed to give the situation gravity or nuance, that the cast are complicit in horrible evil, and the word "miss" is explicitly used as though it's something you may have missed. Regarding Karen as a personal attack is valid, I suppose. It's commonly referred to as someone who is complaining without a genuine reason, and I just think quite frankly that's what is going on here. The topic relies on people not remembering what actually happened and what conversations were actually had.
I'm just not sure about this. "You're going to erase them anyway, why meet them?". I definitely agree that it's stupid pacing-- hence why I said we should have gone to LM much earlier in the narrative. I believe we should have learned about what the Endless are much differently than we did. This is one of many things that makes the story feel poorly written, but it's not a moral issue. I don't think we opt to meet them to hear their arguments but rather because Wuk Lamat just has an obsession with meeting people directly to fully understand any given situation. Like I keep saying, these things are addressed in the conversation where Cahciua first asks for erasure. The reason is given. Not liking the reason is fine, I just don't like the idea that if someone felt it to be sufficient reasoning wasn't paying attention or has a moral deficit. I can understand the awkwardness of it-- they're just fake enough to erase but not quite fake enough to talk to. I guess? Being copies doesn't make them totally worthless, because it's nice to interact with people you have lost and hear their perspective.
I'm not sure what you mean. Sphene was urgently fusing to replenish their aether. Are you saying it would be ok because it would just take one plundering and give us 100k years to figure out a new solution? Again, I don't think one is better than the other. And that's what makes it not an issue of moral relativism. And that's why I generally don't like threads like this.