I don't even know how this happens. I main tank, and play it most of the time, and I've never had anyone pull ahead of me. Obviously I'm always pulling wall to wall to begin with, and at most maybe someone gets one attack on a boss before I do, but does that even matter?

The YPYT mentality made sense back in ARR and HW where tanking was actually pretty difficult, and grabbing aggro from a pack back from someone was resource intensive. In those days, pulling ahead of a tank was detrimental and put an extra load on the tank's shoulders, and it WAS typically easier to just let the person die. But I don't understand how anyone can have this mentality in this day and age. Unless some unholy scenario where a DPS steals an enemy off a pack and runs off to Narnia with it on their own to die happens, which I have NEVER experienced, what are we even complaining about?