that's what I meant with the issue stemming from the middle ages of MMO's ^^
It's an old obsolete mindset that aims only to punish ppl who defy the tanks ego-trip.
Like I already stated, I don't mind who is pulling. It can even be a help sometimes. (especially my healers may pull whenever and whatever they want, though this rarely happens since I'm pulling as much as I can if the party composition seems right)