Sorry you feel that way, but you're the one choosing to place so much emphasis on me and so little on others. Every individual who is doing their best is a valued member of the team.

It takes a team to win the game. I can only assume insidious intentions by suggesting players should be complacent just because I'm calling. Truly, I can call as much as I like, go in on the enemy as often as I can, but if the team isn't with me than I'm useless.

I am glad that I have enough reputation and enough people trust in my calls to lead effectively, but there are short comings to having everyone in one big jumble, so I don't hesitate to call out and praise the people who successfully stalled out the rest of a node, or went and gathered other small ice. There's the people that call out they'll be the bait, or reserve their LB's to stop enemy pulls who have major impact in the outcome of a match.

Even if you're part of the main force. We need multiple darks to ensure one of gets in and gather the enemies, multiple guard breaks staggered out to keep up aggression and everyone is responsible for dealing as much damage as they can.

It's a team game. The more people that cordinate and cooperate, the higher chance they have of winning. I happen to be quite adept at facilitating these things.
Since you've mentioned several times about new callers being bad, I've started searching for those willing to be personally taught by some veteran callers, so I hope you look forward to it.