Reddit is absolutely not any better for sure. The discussion subreddit actually mirrors the state of these forums. We have one main troll that seems to know the community hates them and posts purely to stir things up, while everyone witch hunts for alts, and the entire subreddit dies when they're not there(or people accuse newer posters of being alts while down voting their stuff into oblivion). It's actually worse there because there is active moderation there, it just chooses to ignore the problems because they enjoy the activity it brings.
There's just no where else to go though. Most discord servers suck because they're full of cliques who most of the time aren't even actively playing the game. Majority of servers don't want you, they want a bigger server list and maybe some activity.