I really liked this last part, it describes my feelings exactly. I played xi @ na launch, loved it for about 5-6 years. I have played most recent mmos, swtor, wow, rift, aion. I can't find that sense of adventure I loved about xi so much. Wow was fun, and I think it has a lot of really good qualities in an mmo, but I'm bored of it and find the community to be , for the most part, rude, impatient and out for themselves only.
I've been off and on in xiv since launch. Restarted quite a few times. Only recently after 1.2 started playing again. Its small things that really bother me. An example, I was doing a level 30 leve just a few minutes ago. I don't like the way there is crystals all around each zone. I know they are pretty much exactly like all other mmos do, a "quest hub", although most other games use a city type area, or village, the concept is the same. But I feel like xiv didn't even try to disguise these "hubs" at all, and it breaks (omg, this word everyone loves to hate) immersion for me. I also was slightly annoyed at how every leve is almost the same. Kill X number of enemies (again, a very common mmo trend) but each time I kill a few, the music changes, one runs away, another 2-3 spawn (with no tactics to pull them, its always 100% link, I don't like that either, I enjoyed XI sneak/invis/scent agro detection the best out of any game i've played).
Each job only has a few abilities now, which I also feel is a little too easy. There is what, about 12-15 abilities per job. I know in games where you might have 20-30, you actually only use a few, but while the concept might be the same, having more choices gives me (an illusion maybe?) feeling of being more complicated. And I like that. When wow watered down their talent trees (in 3.0 i think) I didn't like that either. I enjoyed having 61 talent points with various ways to choose my skills, even though there was only 1-2 (optimal) uses for them, it felt more complicated.
I've seen a few mentions in this thread of this game being too easy now. While I can kind of agree on that, at the same time I have to disagree. I find myself looking things up online more often than should be imo. I don't even think playing this game (xi was the say way) is possible in full screen unless you have a second pc to look things up, or don't mind logging out often (small humor here). I've been recently doing some quests, and leveling professions. I asked some friends what I should level on to skill up. I asked them to not tell me exactly what to make, but more how to find out from the game, what I should be doing. They were like "huh? i have no idea lol". Look recipes up online was the most common advice I got. It may have worked in xi, and again, I loved that game. But to not have thing like, a recipe book, or something of the sort, today, at this point in gaming where I would think games have evovled over time, feels like buying a car but they forgot to put wheels on it.
I never found the sense of adventure and exploring in other mmos that I did in xi, and I can't find it here yet either. I'm by no means a "vet" of this game, my highest level being 33 atm, but I do feel like I am having to try to like the game, and overlook the many things I find that I don't like, just to continue on. Small things in the programming really leave me feeling "wtf where they thinking?". Another example, distrubiting attribute points. I like the concept, it seems to work, but why on earth can't I do it while i'm mounted, or keep moving? It really makes me feel like the programming itself is very amature.