Quote Originally Posted by RyuDragnier View Post
...this is acceptable.
We are in agreement in this case, because this is how it should be - if the DPS players want to pull, they should make it easier for you to get aggro back.

I'm sure you realize that some players take your reasoning a step further and would actively move away from that player or stop doing their AoE rotation until they are dead. Not many, but I've met players like this.