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    Minarisweet's Avatar
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    Ara Amai
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    Sargatanas
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    Red Mage Lv 100
    Quote Originally Posted by Miracle_Diva View Post
    Try finding people to play anything with. Sometimes it's about the company and not the activity.
    Or maybe take a break from games completely and do something new irl.
    I think the issue with this is that then I'd depend on said people to have fun and I have lived through this before, its not healthy for either parties.

    I feel like its more healthy to play the game together because you both find it fun, like I do with my gf in destiny 2. I dont need her to log in but feel way better when we play together.
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    Last edited by Minarisweet; 04-12-2023 at 05:03 AM.

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    Wissp's Avatar
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    Gridania
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    Character
    Annabel Ashcroft
    World
    Faerie
    Main Class
    White Mage Lv 90
    Quote Originally Posted by Minarisweet View Post
    I think the issue with this is that then I'd depend on said people to have fun and I have lived through this before, its not healthy for either parties.

    I feel like its more healthy to play the game together because you both find it fun, like I do with my gf in destiny 2. I don't need her to log in but feel way better when we play together.
    You know, you are not wrong about this, especially if there is not a mix of friends to play with, relying only on one specific one. Relying on them too much can get to be too much for the person and make you a pest.

    I kind of have this with my game wife Aria, one game BFF above all others. But because of my Raiding and EX parties to keep me busy, I am fine if she is not around to hang out with. Even if she is I might be busy in a hard instance to have time to be with her, and she's fine with that too as she does her own thing.
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