It shouldn't matter whether it's blown up or not, because at what point is a problem not worth attention? When it affects less then 50% of people? Less than 10%? Less than 5%? Or less than 0.1%?
About 3% of men in the US have experienced attempted or completed rape. Is rape of men a bigger issue than it really is?
It shouldn't matter, because it's simply wrong and the goal should be that nobody gets raped. Same for stalking. It shouldn't matter how big of a problem stalking in FFXIV really is, it should simply be made harder to do. At least it shouldn't be so easy and absolutely trivial to stalk a character until the character is deleted.