Tales from Duty Finder: Some make you laugh, some make you cry. Let's vent. 2.0

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That being said, two things:

- I can only speak from my own perspective, but I would never want a player who is doing their best to leave the group. Kicking and leaving is, for me, reserved for people who are really unpleasant and AFK people. And... I think many agree with me. We'll bitch sometimes behind our screen, but without particularly wanting you to leave, and without real venom. So don't give up your place so easily: explain, apologize if you feel it's necessary, but continue.

- Beware of self-flagellation. Another forumer has already elaborated before me, but if you have difficulties to manage the mechanics, then you are also part of those who don't have a global vision of the group... And of the origin of the damage that everyone takes. Being aware of your own shortcomings is one thing; taking responsibility for all the mistakes (when you have no idea) is another.

Agreed. They were also on the last boss. I highly doubt that the RDM could have been the sole cause of the wipes (I don’t even see how). There were other weaknesses in that group.