To Tanks Who only pull One Mob at a Time......

[Sebazy]

It was the most recent dungeon. And I wasn't healing on my SCH. I was healing on my WHM. So now I really bet you're scratching your head.

Not going to lie, I am certainly scratching my head. I assume you mean Dead Ends? The trash pulls before the last two bosses can look a little overwhelming, but they're really not that bad at all.

Owning the mistake is right way to go though, in the case of the Bardam's wipe I mentioned, it was my first dungeon run in the morning, I was evidently still half asleep and the icing on the cake was that I actually shadowplayed it for some reason, it still haunts me to this day as of course, it highlights everything I could have done better to avoid the wipe

In response to your question, I'll respond with another question =( Did your tank actually know that you were struggling to keep up? Did you mention anything? Whenever I've seen something like this crop up, if no one says anything, people get annoyed about it, but on the rare occasion where someone pipes up with 'hey I'm new, please go easy etc' I've never seen the rest of the group take issue with it.

Oh and for the stack markers, get into the habit of benison+aquaveiling yourself if you get it. Aglaia is just as bad for people ignoring them and that combo is frequently enough to scrape you through it avoiding a lame death.