You made a thread and are walking around demanding people trest others better, that far more then a question. Also it is the mods JOB to handle the trouble makers and by creating threads like this you are not helping them, just creating more work for them. I used to mod in many games and one in particular was a server forum in which NO other mod could handle the people there except myself. Those who thought they were "helping" just added extra time on my daily shift of cleaning out the trash and setting people straight.
All I'm saying is by acting the way you are you are only causing more problems and in no way are you solving anything.
Edit: One more thing, please stop bringing up things that happened in a unrelated game because this is FFXIV not Aion or WoW. Different game, different community, different people. FFXIV will NEVER be like either of those games so thats not a valid arguement.