Quote Originally Posted by HisShadowX View Post
I'm talking about no healing buffs put on me or if it a buff is put on me they accept that as healing. Like they won't start healing at all I noticed as a Paladin. This week when I tested I was not going to heal at the beginning of the dungeons the healers would often not cast even a healing buff or if they did that's all they did and just DPS'd until I died. Then when they resurrected me they did one big heal and then stopped healing completely again.

I've noticed this is happening to my Paladins only the Gunblades and Dark Knights will get healed, but the Paladin seems to be expected to heal themselves.
Sorry, it doesn't feel like you answered the rest of my questions. IMO the average healer would know that a PLD coming to the point of casting Clemency is bad because it tanks your own gameplay flow (unless you're overzealous with the self-healing yourself). Usually in FFXIV healing guides players are told to heal when the tank goes to 40%-30%.

It's starting to sound like this happened to you just once TBH. A healer greeded too much with damage, told you to just heal yourself because Clemency, and found it more convenient to resurrect after the death. Seems like too specific an instance to occur many times (if it is, yikes, terrible luck). Most healers have good off-GCD healing tools so it's not even like they need to stop damaging to heal, they've little reason left to greed at this point with the shortening of the damage button cast.

I've heard in much earlier expansions and the base game healers avoided damaging often because it needed a stance switch and MP management wasn't as lenient. Things have changed if that was the case then, because all left to do now is press Lucid Dreaming (or in Astrologian's case, just draw cards).