Squeenix Terms on how Players should behave are way too strict even for MMO standards, it is almost as bad as League of Legends used to be before Tencent bought it (cant say how much it changed since then since i quit way before that happened) with its Tribunal System where Players could ban each other through a majority vote system (you were basically at the mercy of complete strangers, and i dont think i need to tell anyone how much of a "genius" idea this is) and even got rewarded for doing so.

Even if you just get a "slap on the wrist" from Squeenix, guilty or not, the fact that this issue can be used aganist you for any further violation for the next 2-3 Years is pretty much over the top when you consider, that even mere insults among 2 Players can technically get you banned. Player issues among each other, should be resolved by the involving Parties, and not by any GMs. Even 12 Year olds need to learn the hard way that arguing with someone over trivial matters for hours, is at the end just a waste of time and it will end up being a valueable lesson on the long run.

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