Quote Originally Posted by Espon View Post
Of course them going ahead is toxic, but them being toxic does not give you permission to be toxic as well. What do you get out of it? Do you think you're teaching them a lesson by letting people die?

If it's the healer pulling ahead, are you going to let them die and cause the group to wipe? I'm sure the other 2 people in the group would find that really funny. And if it's a DPS that's pulling, now the healer is stressing out having to heal them because you refuse to tank because someone else pulled.
And why should the tank/healer tolerate such behavior when the DPS roles do such a stunt?

They already have the least responsibility in a group and seemingly are allowed to get away with a lot of things, be it getting hit by avoidable attacks, not doing their AoE rotation in groups of 3+ or just do crappy DPS in general.
But sure, blame it on the tank. Same when you reach enrage in fights where apparently "A different tank would have made the difference under the same circumstances."

But never hold the DPS responsible.