I have to ask, what does calling Venat a mentally ill psychopath add to this discussion? It just seems like a lot of snarl words that strip her of any agency in her actions.

After all, if she's mentally ill and psychopathic, then she hardly even has the capacity to be responsible for her actions.If you want to condemn the sundering, fine. But your condemnation would actually be stronger if you insist she was an empathic person acting in good faith, who was in fact, not a deranged pyschopath.