The only things that make me "cringe" are things that negatively impact other people's experiences, and not just "oh this glam is bad what an eyesore", but being rude to people in content, making fun of others, that sort of thing. People can dress how they want, they can roleplay, or just raid, chat with silly quirks, hang out in their favorite towns with their friends, none of it has ever bothered me, I actually love seeing people just enjoying their time in the game how it makes them happy, as long as their fun doesn't infringe on other people's enjoyment you know?