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    Quote Originally Posted by xxmiamorecadenza View Post
    Please. As a black woman irl who only makes black characters - this would be amazing.
    Was the first part really nesscary? I never got the need to announce such things.

    On topic aye more curly hair please and thank you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bobby66 View Post
    Was the first part really nesscary? I never got the need to announce such things.

    On topic aye more curly hair please and thank you.
    I design characters that look like myself. So yes - I find it completely necessary. Sorry if me mentioning my ethnicity offends you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by xxmiamorecadenza View Post
    You're very welcome to cry about it some more if you fancy it.

    Ultimately, I don't care. I was raised to be loud and proud - and I will remain as such.
    Not exactly crying, just made a comment. I have friends and family like that also so I get it. Still seems weird to me but you do you.

    Quote Originally Posted by Floortank View Post
    Stop trying to pull this person up short for saying what they want. You don't like that they said it, and that says things about you.

    Also that red squiggle under the word "nesscary" you keep typing means you spelled it wrong.
    Thanks, English is not my first language so I still make silly mistakes.
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    Last edited by Bobby66; 12-31-2021 at 12:34 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bobby66 View Post
    Not exactly crying, just made a comment. I have friends and family like that also so I get it. Still seems weird to me but you do you.



    Thanks, English is not my first language so I still make silly mistakes.
    There's nothing bad about someone mentioning their race. They were speaking about how relative it is to them to have hair that represents them. It shouldn't even bother you enough to make a post about it.
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    Last edited by Soulebreaker; 12-31-2021 at 05:02 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Soulebreaker View Post
    There's nothing bad about someone mentioning their race. They were speaking about how relative it is to them to have hair that represents them. It shouldn't even bother you enough to make a post about it.
    I know it shouldn't but it does. Just like my family members that have a flag on their car. I get you are proud to be what you are I get it is cool. It just irks me probably because I am around it all the time. Things can bother people no need to agree with it.or even respect it for that. Just like I tell my family I do not see much reason to be proud or protective of something you legit had no control over. That is just me though.

    Generally why it is called a pet peeve it person dependent.

    I still stand behind more options the better.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bobby66 View Post
    Just like I tell my family I do not see much reason to be proud or protective of something you legit had no control over.
    Historical context, basically. The generation prior was discriminated against for how they were born - so it's inevitable that in a more tolerant society they openly embrace traits that were formerly viewed as ugly, inferior, etc.
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    Quote Originally Posted by xxmiamorecadenza View Post
    Historical context, basically. The generation prior was discriminated against for how they were born - so it's inevitable that in a more tolerant society they openly embrace traits that were formerly viewed as ugly, inferior, etc.
    I think you're talking to someone who doesn't know how it feels to be shunned for simply being born as something they cannot change. They won't ever understand. You're wasting your time.
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    Quote Originally Posted by xxmiamorecadenza View Post
    I was raised to be loud and proud - and I will remain as such.
    And I was raised to ignore people who have to be incredibly obnoxious when announcing themselves. So I guess we are at an impasse. You're not being sassy, you're not being witty. You're just being obnoxious.
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    Quote Originally Posted by JennytheJester View Post
    And I was raised to ignore people who have to be incredibly obnoxious when announcing themselves. So I guess we are at an impasse. You're not being sassy, you're not being witty. You're just being obnoxious.
    Didn’t realize saying I’m a black woman is an obnoxious thing now. Or even witty. It’s merely a factual statement.

    Love how you threw in the ‘sassy’ quirk in there. How… telling.

    Edit; Ultimately, I find it amusing that the mere act of declaring myself and how this particular addition would allow me to better emulate aspects of myself in-game is what triggered this discussion.
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    Last edited by xxmiamorecadenza; 12-31-2021 at 08:03 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bobby66 View Post
    I mean that is life people will having differing views and thresholds for what they obnoxious, and or questionable behavior / actions. That said i will agree that the silly and witty comment does not apply to your statement. Though i do get where they are coming from i live with the type that are overly obnoxious about their pride,

    I do not think your statement falls in that lines for me personally, but as mentioned everyone has a different threshold, and they are free to feel as such just as you are free to feel a certain way. I still do question it, but I understand where you are coming from though.
    Despite our differing perspectives, I appreciate your civility.
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