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    MilkieTea's Avatar
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    C'erise Vanesse
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    Maduin
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    Red Mage Lv 90
    You have anxiety... so what?

    So long as they weren't gimping the run they're doing fine. They have every right to use the chat box so long as they are not harassing you. And it seems they weren't, considering you said nothing to indicate you were uncomfortable with the situation. From someone who has a diagnosed generalized anxiety disorder: Suck. It. Up. If you're uncomfortable with something either say something or don't complain when others can't read your mind.

    Edit with quote inb4 any possible OP edits:
    Quote Originally Posted by Kanitezz View Post
    I was tanking a roulette with randoms and got Aetherochemical Research Facility. There was a couple of players in that run that were role playing as if they were doing their own storyline type of thing and kept trying to rope me and the other player into their role playing. Neither of us was interested as they should've been able to tell when we weren't talking.

    To make matters worse these people kept poking hints at us like 'These warriors are mighty quiet.' or 'I wonder why they're not talking...' This drove my anxiety up really bad. And I just kept doing emotes at them to try to keep the mood light between the entire party. Their persistence felt like borderline harassment to my oversensitive ass. But I cant get that upset since I didn't ask them to stop in the first place. The other party member was not having any of it. You should've seen how fast he left after the dungeon was over. Left via the duty menu so quickly he did.

    The run was not pleasant for me at all. I do role play but mainly with friends, and definitely not in duty finder dungeons with randoms I literally met 5 seconds ago. So please... don't try to force/rope other people into your role play. Or at least just me.
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    Last edited by MilkieTea; 12-12-2021 at 11:54 AM.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Stormpeaks View Post
    No thanks. Housing is fine as it is