On Extreme Role-playing Within XIV

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So it appears OOC hateful remarks towards lalafell are okay, because it is not RP, but being around someone who makes racist remarks makes them uncomfortable. Though they are able to make a difference between such comments when they come to OOC, but not RP. I cannot be the only one that views that as a weird standard since both are around characters that do not exist.

It really sounds like you're putting words in their mouth.
Where did they say any of this?
Please quote it to me.