Being completely disinterested in learning from this again shows that you're no better than the healer in the story tbh. Are you forgetting the simple fact that your side of the story doesn't add up correctly? It's this that has people filling in the gaps themselves. Again, please don't take this as me trying to defend the healer, my impression is that this is just a case of 'when bads collide'. Take that as you will.
Lastly, I think you are misunderstanding the definition, purpose and inevitable usage of a discussion forum.