To Yoshi P, don't worry about it.

[Kaliesto]

A little history lesson for you before telling someone to chill out. Hobbies matter, more than you think. To say it is just a game, that is a foolish statement. Many people are over worked, tired, and stressed with life right now. So games is a great way to balance. My grandfather got into fish fights over fishing of all things. In our history hobbies have always have a impact on our life and matters.

When you say it is just a game. You deflect the feelings and time goes into the game. Time we will not get back. So in other words. No it is not "just a game" and no I won't chill out. It is understandable to be upset about the delay. As i said that is not a pass to mistreat them over it.

There is other hobbies, and you're taking this way too personally. When the game is ready its ready.

And how you feel about yourself shouldn't be used as a excuse, you have multiple outlets to relieve that stress and FFXIV isn't the only one.

[Jadedsins]

There is other hobbies, and you're taking this way too personally. When the game is ready its ready.

I think you are not understanding my point. Are you saying it is not ok to be upset with a delay? When people took time off work and can't get that back? That they should be like shrug and not be annoyed?

It is not taking it personal, I'm stating a fact. It is ok to be irked about the delay.


And to say other hobbies, sure but you got to be in the mood for them. It is hard to say go do something else when you are hyped for this story and this hobby.

[Kaliesto]

I think you are not understanding my point. Are you saying it is not ok to be upset with a delay? When people took time off work and can't get that back? That they should be like shrug and not be annoyed?

It is not taking it personal, I'm stating a fact. It is ok to be irked about the delay.

Yes the delay is unfortunate, but this is no reason to raise up in arms about it.

You're only making them more stressed out.

[Jadedsins]

Yes the delay is unfortunate, but this is no reason to raise up in arms about it.

You're only making them more stressed out.

I'm confused. Who said anything about raising up?

[Kaliesto]

I'm confused. Who said anything about raising up?

Then you need to switch the tone of your comment earlier, I'm saying some people on here seem like they are throwing their frustrations onto them with things like "I used my vacation time for this" and other situations.

That doesn't help them.

[Jadedsins]

Then you need to switch the tone of your comment earlier, I'm saying some people on here seem like they are throwing their frustrations onto them with things like "I used my vacation time for this" and other situations.

That doesn't help them.

Ok so what does help them? Because I figure stating something like..it is ok to feel upset and that is normal. Is much better than what you are doing. Telling them that it is just a hobby, or making a thread defending someone that does not really need it, and we had another thread about this also.


All I am saying is, the best way to help the people who are stressed is to be understanding about it. Not devaluing their time by telling them that they can do something else, or it is not worth getting that upset about. The cult of Yoshi P comes out of the woods and bash these people on reddit for being upset about it, and that looks far worse than the people irked for legit reasons.

I try not to use tone because it is hard to get a full grasp through text, but if you want to use tone fine... Your replies come off very patronizing.

[Kaliesto]

Ok so what does help them? Because I figure stating something like..it is ok to feel upset and that is normal. Is much better than what you are doing. Telling them that it is just a hobby, or making a thread defending someone that does not really need it, and we had another thread about this also.


All I am saying is, the best way to help the people who are stressed is to be understanding about it. Not devaluing their time by telling them that they can do something else, or it is not worth getting that upset about. The cult of Yoshi P comes out of the woods and bash these people on reddit for being upset about it, and that looks far worse than the people irked for legit reasons.

I try not to use tone because it is hard to get a full grasp through text, but if you want to use tone fine... Your replies come off very patronizing.

If your life revolves around one thing that isn't healthy.

Full stop.

This isn't devaluing his game and the time he put into it, you're throwing that in there and that goes for the players too onto the player-side of things. I'm saying people who revolve their life around it and acting out is bad.

[DragoAskani]

There is other hobbies, and you're taking this way too personally. When the game is ready its ready.

And how you feel about yourself shouldn't be used as a excuse, you have multiple outlets to relieve that stress and FFXIV isn't the only one.

Who the hell are you to tell anyone how they should feel about anything?

[Kaliesto]

Who the hell are you to tell anyone how they should feel about anything?

The way your reacting tells me your taking it way too hard, stop acting so emotional and think about your own behavior.

[DragoAskani]

The way your reacting tells me your taking it way too hard, stop acting so emotional and think about your own behavior.

No I'm pointing out the hypocrisy in your stupid behavior. You don't get to dictate how someone feels about anything. And you coming in here telling people not to feel the way they feel is the equivalent of me walking up to a parent whos child is screaming and start giving them unsolicited parenting advice. Its rarely wanted, or needed, and your two worthless cents aren't helping anything.