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    Quote Originally Posted by kaynide View Post
    2- The key problem is the second half of that statement, the "You can't do it any other way, so stop doing that!"; that bit worded the way it is (especially in Japanese) can be seen as belittling another. Rather, just saying "We can only beat X by doing Y" should be clear and easy enough that you don't need to elaborate further about what they're doing wrong.
    The problem is that different cultures perceive statements differently. If someone kept saying the latter term, it would make me kinda feel that the person saying is being passive aggressive and condescending. Not to say that the first one is OK either, but to me the most polite way of saying is: "You just have to do it this way, since that's how we can complete the mechanic simplest/easiest." I mean I wouldn't get offended enough to report someone for either statements you made as an example, but it just isn't that simple in my opinion.
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    Quote Originally Posted by KOPF View Post
    The problem is that different cultures perceive statements differently. If someone kept saying the latter term, it would make me kinda feel that the person saying is being passive aggressive and condescending. Not to say that the first one is OK either, but to me the most polite way of saying is: "You just have to do it this way, since that's how we can complete the mechanic simplest/easiest." I mean I wouldn't get offended enough to report someone for either statements you made as an example, but it just isn't that simple in my opinion.
    Wait there is different cultures in this world beside murica's one ?
    We need to tell the world.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Izscha View Post
    Wait there is different cultures in this world beside murica's one ?
    We need to tell the world.
    Wrong country for this game lol.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Absurdity View Post
    Wrong country for this game lol.
    It was more about how ppl being the most vocal on any "issue" on the internet are from NA.
    Just need to look at this forum tho or even this thread.
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    Quote Originally Posted by KOPF View Post
    The problem is that different cultures perceive statements differently. If someone kept saying the latter term, it would make me kinda feel that the person saying is being passive aggressive and condescending. Not to say that the first one is OK either, but to me the most polite way of saying is: "You just have to do it this way, since that's how we can complete the mechanic simplest/easiest." I mean I wouldn't get offended enough to report someone for either statements you made as an example, but it just isn't that simple in my opinion.
    It's a Japanese game policed by Japanese people; How they (or people they've specifically hired) interpret the rules is all there is to it. They need not explain their reasoning as this isn't a court of law or whatever.

    Though like you're saying, being more polite is always the way to go.
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    Quote Originally Posted by kaynide View Post
    It's a Japanese game policed by Japanese people; How they (or people they've specifically hired) interpret the rules is all there is to it. They need not explain their reasoning as this isn't a court of law or whatever.

    Though like you're saying, being more polite is always the way to go.
    Honto da!

    I think the mental gymnastics required for non-Japanese or non-people-who've-lived-in-Japan to understand the sometimes significant difference in points-of-view can be insurmountable in these matters. Even though I'd been aware of social practices before moving there, I know I had no real/true frame of reference as to how radically different my American POV was from the Japanese POV. Thankfully my momma raised a boy with good manners so the gap wasn't completely insurmountable.

    Erring on the side of "best behavior" never hurts and hopefully the well-hidden statement of SE staff accounting for regional cultural differences will have noticeable benefit.

    This whole kurffule makes me glad I'm on a JP server though and not some "JP-but-OCE-dominated server like Ton....oh, *ahem*. .



    Quote Originally Posted by Lunalepsy View Post
    The only policy I'm not ok with is the one about random disconnections. Sometimes, I get 90k'd out of nowhere for joining an instance. It usually takes me 2-3 minutes to come back (logging in + queue), so telling people to stop using the Duty Finder system is a bit weird.
    I wouldn't be surprised if they've got a way to track this; especially if the client gives you an error message.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Illmaeran View Post
    I wouldn't be surprised if they've got a way to track this; especially if the client gives you an error message.
    I hope they do because it would be painful to be punished for a network error. I guess it's best to bring a witness (a friend) before running any content in case you get DCed.
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    Quote Originally Posted by kaynide View Post
    It's a Japanese game policed by Japanese people; How they (or people they've specifically hired) interpret the rules is all there is to it. They need not explain their reasoning as this isn't a court of law or whatever.

    Though like you're saying, being more polite is always the way to go.
    That is true, that is their right.

    But in my opinion, the consumer has a right to criticize those rules as well. For Japan, these rules probably make complete sense, although I am not knowledgeable enough about Japanese culture to confirm that. I am saying that what constitutes a generally agreeable offense will widely differ between cultures, which wouldn't be a problem in a very homogenized datacentre like JP, might give out problems in a datacentre with a very broad sense of cultures like EU. I feel that these corrections that most likely are completely suitable for Japanese culture can also be easier used for malice, which can lead to more work for GMs or ToS being used as a malicious tool for bad actors.

    For example, the Nordic and the Mediterranean cultures can be very different, and therefore a lot of misunderstandings may happen between them that can lead to major offense on one side or another. Anecdotally I have been on both sides of those kinds of cultural differences. Thankfully people are usually able to talk things out since people are for the most part well-meaning and understanding when these things occur. Therefore things should work out how they did before. I don't think it is that probable, that people use the CoC as a tool on a larger scale and most likely we'll keep on trucking as is.

    Like I said before since I haven't had any reprimands for my behaviour, I most likely won't receive more after these clarifications either. The rules just feel too specific for me for how nuanced the topic can be. I can also be very wrong on how normal these kinds of ToS/CoC are since I am not an expert and I haven't looked at the rules of other games that specifically, so I could be very wrong on how specific the FFXIV CoC is.
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