I definitely do think that it's not as horrible as people act like, even if I do that myself too.
My issue is moreso that the bad is pretty avoidable and tied a lot to the rewards and inflated egos of some people that is reinforced with icons etc.
I think it's pretty unnecessary and could be solved relatively easily.
But I also think that people have a tendency to notice and pay attention to negativity more and I am definitely guilty of this probably moreso than most, I very easily get worked up over things.
Especially when I feel like it's totally pointless negativity.
Like if you listen to Reddit then everyone plays a Miqo'Te or Viera wearing the 2B pants, but that's because they get upset by that type of content so when they see one of them in a crowd of 50 people they pay more attention to it.
Same with '' female armor '' and then people never stop to ask themselves why they always bring up the same handful of identical examples.
If that's all you got then is it really a widespread thing to begin with or do you only feel like it is?
Just because stuff exists doesn't make it the status quo or common.
I actually kinda feel this with DRK's with the artifact armor and the Horde weapon or SAM and NIN players with the PvP 180ilvl Heavensward set and a cheap glowy weapon from the market board.
To me it has basically become the generic go to '' I want to be a cool edgy boi '' gear in my eyes and I feel like almost every time I see someone in that they kinda suck and like they're all over the place.
Is that actually true in reality?
Not really, but we're human beings we find patterns and even if they're not there and not true we find them anyway.
Most mentors are probably cool but the people with inflated egos are going to be a lot more noticable and have a greater impact.
Honestly even with googling the game can be confusing for a sprout.
And I'd rather explain something to someone quickly than having to stop so that they can go and google what to do.
I also think that people appreciate social interactions too, we all ask things that could very easily be googled.
It becomes a bit depressing when you just google everything and have no interactions with people lol.
And a lot of people get something out of helping too it makes them feel good.



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