The trouble with telling tanks W2W pulls are a mandatory norm.

[Goji1639]

After a certain point, it's more fun to wipe trying than to clear single-pulling. That's when you see healers rescuing tanks and dps pulling for the tank.

Just play along with your party. If they want to be reckless, then back them up.

Could just as easily say that "a tank pulling small is at a point where he's not confident and just wants a minimum stress clear. Just play along with your party. If they want to be careful, then back them up."

Honestly, depending on the situation I'll often prefer a guaranteed clear that takes an extra 5 minutes to everyone just running off trying to set their own pace because they're bored.