Need help / advice for this tank roulette situation

[Rinhi]

Does single pulling upset you? Tell me all about it.

no, why would it? I'll just adjust and finish the dungeon and take a bit longer
it's odd that you think people must be upset about something if they criticize it, though, like almost as if you don't understand that those things are separate from each other

The lack of a greeting is beside the point. I only mentioned it to highlight the apparent fact that you made no effort to communicate your wishes to the group before trying to force them to play your way. If pulling the second group occurred by accident in the chaos of starting the dungeon, then fair enough, it happens. But don't you think you could have tried to kindly coax the tank to try big pulls rather than berate them for being bad? Yes, I know big pulls are the norm and the dungeons are designed that way, but sometimes you encounter people who have managed to lead sheltered lives up until now. What do you stand to lose by at least trying to get along with others?

it's level 80 content with 500 minimum ilvl, you have to actively try to get killed by mobs as a tank
why must those with "a sheltered life" be sheltered further by other people? why must everyone bow to their whims because otherwise you'll be seen as a toxic elitist by the virtue signallers?