I keep seeing ads for these sorts of events, but haven't scraped up the courage to attend one yet. I would like to go and just people-watch and listen to music, but I'm not very social or chatty, so I'm afraid I would just be an awkward lump taking up space and harshing the groove. What are the usual expectations for these things? I feel like I would make everything worse for others just by being there, especially if there is an instance player limit and they want to hold a glamour contest while I show up in my lowbie rags.