Quote Originally Posted by Jadedsins View Post
As my husband said. I'm not in your linkshell, and the game made the party with no set rules. The content gets done even with me playing like this, and it gets done pretty quickly at that. Even if it did not get done quickly. I'm not in a group to make friends. We are just using each other for progression. If the game require me to play that way to beat the content. Than sure you can be upset and I would not belong in it.


The developers understand that tons of players like me. So my advice? Get use to it when it comes to doing DF. If that is being toxic. Well gladly will be toxic? I mean this weird "respect" thing when grouping must be a new player type thing, because like my husband said. UO, and heck even EQ. Did not have standards on pick up groups.


Now if I was in a LS, or doing high end content. Than your views would be on point. If you made a group and design the rules of said group. Again your standards would be acceptable. You did not make that group, and not one person myself or others have a right to tell anyone how to play what they enjoy in said group. That does not mean the group can't kick you though if you holding back.
New player by what means? Cause even in FF XI would your play style would be seen as bad performance. As only end game content in XI was done by "guilds". Just about everything else was pug. Heck you sometimes even got shouts since there wasn't a PF or a DF for higher difficulty stuff. Again if you que by yourself you'd be the one who's being selfish as you'd be in the minority. Which is what those who've debated with you are assuming. Which I doubt you'd be doing as I'm sure you'd not do anything without your husband.